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What motivates me to do this work?

I have always had an interest in history and over time this has evolved to be family history or genealogy (if we are using the correct term). I love searching for ancestors and finding the little stories and tales about them. As I research I feel them come alive, as I read another newspaper article or match a face to the person in a photograph.

Learning about our ancestors brings reflection for ourselves. Where does my love of needlework and lacemaking come from? Where does my nose come from? What genetic code did I get from my great great grandmother? All these questions pop up for me while I am researching my own tree.

When researching trees for others I dont typically know what will bring a smile to my clients face. Is it the stories that are found in a marriage certificate? It is the letter home from the war? Is it that Great Granny Jones was a successful business woman? 

When we research our past – we learn from our past how does this affect our identity? Does some of the patterns from our ancestors reflect in our current lives?

Hilda Richards - Nurse
My Great Grandmother Hilda Richards was a Registered Nurse

My Great Grandmother Hilda Richards was a Registered Nurse in Bendigo, Victoria. Is this part of the reason that I became a nurse? Is it in the DNA I inherited from her? She would be run off her toes if she was here in the times of Covid 19, with that infectious diseases training!

I am motivated to help you discover your history, bringing you connections to your past, which in turn might lead you to discover more about yourself.

If you are interested in starting the journey, I would love to assist you – Why not check out my research packages

 

Conferences

Family History Down Under 2021 – I’m Already Excited

In the Midst of Covid 19 Precautions and being super busy with my Nurse Practitioner day job, I am dreaming of holidays that won’t be cancelled and learning from my fellow DNA and Genealogy friends. 

My next big conference is in March 2021 and I am already super excited. I have been selected as an Ambassador to assist before and after the event.

The last conference DNA Down Under ran in 2019 was exceptional and the speakers for this next one wont disappoint either. See my reviews from 2019 here 

I have booked my room on the Sunny Coast and cant wait to be there. Tickets are still available at the early bird rate till the 31st of August 2020.

I cant wait to be there, but have a while to wait, off to read some more and do some more DNA puzzles!

Great stories

Cecelia Bleck Relative makes contact

Johann (John) & Antje Bogert taken in 1905.

I have news to share regarding one of the Cecilia Black stories! The relative belongs to Cecelia Bleck (Part 2) the poor one that was murdered. 

I received an email from Jill, a family member of Cecilia Bleck – Cecilia is her 3rd great aunt on her maternal grandfather’s side.  

She shared with me that the Borchert family emigrated from Schleswig Holstein Prussia on the migrant ship the “La Rochelle”. Culturally they were Danish not German hence their emigration after the Prussian war. 

Jill, like me became facinated by Cecilia’s life and went hunting newspaper articles and news stories to get more of the tale.

Jill feels that Cecilia and August married in August of 1877 and had a son Wilhelm whom died the same year, 

She found that Cecilia was 26 when she died, leaving 3 children behind. We can only find details of two of the children – that being Anna Kathrina Sophia Bleck who was born in 1881 and died in 1882 and there could be a son called Albert. Is Wilhelm being counted as the third child or is there another child still to be found?

Jill feels that following the tragic death of Anna, Cecilia may have moved from the family home into a flat in Brisbane. 

Had she lived with August (her husband) in Queanbeyan prior to fleeing to Brisbane?

Cecilia’s parents lived in Meringandan in Queensland, was she moving closer to them?

Cecilia was 4-5 months pregnant at the time of her murder in 1883, who was the father to that baby? Her husband or someone else?

Her death remains a cold case 🙁 Her lifeless body was dumped on the banks of the Brisbane River. 

Johann (John) Borgert (Cecilia's brother)

She was only a year younger than her older brother John (Johann) maybe her ghost cries out for him or her father John?

There were four siblings in total whom left Germany – Claus, Johann (Jill’s great great grandfather) Anna & Cecilia.

Cecilia was named after her grandmother Silje (Cecilia) whom was Johann’s mother. 

Johann married Hannah Wagland who was born in Warwick to English immigrants Mark & Catherine Wagland.

Jill doesn’t know if Johann & Hannah stayed married as Hannah is buried in Bororen QLD and Johann was buried Goombungee on the Darling Downs.

Johann & Hannah’s daughter Annie is Jill’s great grandmother 🙂

Do you have more information to this story? I am sure that Jill would love to hear it as much as I would. Feel free to email me mel@thednaconnection.com.au

Great stories

Part 2 – Cecilia Margaretha Borchant

So Cecilia Black / Bleck – number two – Could this be the mystery 1800’s ghost who haunts a house in Queanbean, New South Wales – See the ghost story here

Cecilia Margaretha Borchant was born in 1857 in Germany, her father John was 31 and her mother Antya was 27. She married August Friedrich Wilhelm Bleck on 30 December 1877 in Queensland. They had three children during their marriage. She died as a young mother on 2nd July 1883 in Brisbane, Queensland at the age of 26 years.

This is where things get interesting...

7 Jul 1883 The Telegraph Brisbane
9 Jul 1883 The Argus
14 Jul 1883 The Sydney Daily Telegraph
Queensland Police Gazette 21st July 1883
Brisbane Courier 11th Sept 1883
Brisbane Courier 15th Sept 1883
The Queenslander 22nd Sept 1883 p491
Newspaper ?Brisbane Courier 27 Nov 1883

Could this Cecilia be the ghost who protects babies and small children and calls out the name “John”?

With such a tragic end to her life and with her murderer on the loose, is never finding her murderer,  the reason she has still not crossed over? 

I dont know but the search continues…… Which Cecilia Black haunts the house in Queanbean? 

Great stories

Part 1 – Cecilia Ann Black

Cecilia Ann Black was born in 1856, the daughter of Charlotte and Thomas. She married James Matthew Dinning in 1880 in Kiama, New South Wales. They had five children during their marriage. 

Children born to the marriage were:

Gertrude Florence. Born 1885 Died 11 Feb 1902, Burwood, NSW

Charlotte M. Born May 1887. Died 17 Jun 1888, NSW

Ellen Mary (Nell). Born 1889, NSW

Rose Maud. Born 1892. Died 30 Oct 1897 Burwood, NSW

Elizabeth Alice. Died 21 Sep 1954, NSW

Cecilia Ann Black died on 10 October 1942 in Sutherland, New South Wales, when she was 86 years old. She is buried in the Rockwood Cemetery, 

Could this be our Ghost? The location could be right but it feels too close to Sydney. Her husband is James not John. The hunt continues…….. 

Great stories

Chasing the Ghost of Cecilia Black

I have been chasing the ghost of Cecilia Black. After meeting a new friend, who was actually my AirBNB host Pamela when I stayed in in Castle Hill for the DNA Downunder Roadshow. Her unit was awesome and I loved my stay. 

Pamela was telling me about her friend and how they felt that Cecilia was living in her friends house.  Excitedly I wanted to know more and if I could assist with the mystery using my research skills. 

Have you a Cecilia Black on your family tree? or do you DNA match to her? Have you heard stories about a Cecilia Black? Maybe she visits your house? 

What do we know?

Cecilia is a friendly ghost who likes to open and close doors, sometimes being cheeky and locking them. She leaves footprints in the carpeted areas of the house. She likes to stand beside a white marble fireplace calling out for “John”. 

She lived in the 1800’s and she wears a long black skirt with a white shirt with puffy sleeves and a tiny waist. She has her hair pulled back into a bun. Her perfume smells like old fashioned flowers. 

We believe that she lived in the Monaro area of New South Wales, Australia.

She is very protective of babies and young children. 

Do you know Cecilia or know anything about the Black family from the Monaro Area of NSW? Comment below or email me – mel@thednaconnection.com.au

Stay tuned for what I have found so far…… 

To read the next instalment Click Here

Conferences, DNA

DNA to the Max – Sydney

What a fantastic conference that was!! For the first conference of its type in Australia that was an amazing success. Congratulations to the team at Unlock the Past for creating such a wonderful event. I cant wait for the next one.

Highlights of the last 3 days for me:

* The discussions around informed consent – I know I will be changing my practices, when asking people to take a DNA test

* I have an increased awareness of the need for support, for all who have surprises pop up, when taking a DNA test, and I am more conscious of the ripple effect on families when surprises and secret are discovered

* The exciting changes that are coming for use the DNA testing in the future including the use of DNA to inform about Medical information eg Medications and conditions

* Chromosome Mapping and Visual Phasing – Thanks Blaine Bettinger for allowing the nerd in me, to be excited about this. Linking the ancestoral stories to the chromosomes was a lightbulb moment for me!

* The rise is DNA testing is increasing the awareness of the need for Genealogical societies and showing others the joy of traditional Genealogical research.

I am excited to think that we are going to see many more DNA testers in Australia and that I have potentially have many more cousins to meet. 

My 11th Cousin 1x Removed Blaine Bettinger enjoying an aussie meat pie

I made another Cousin connection – Shelley Crawford from Connected DNA

 https://www.connecteddna.com/ She is my 7th Cousin 3x removed and was my closest match of the weekend. 

Shelley creates these amazing graphs of your shared cousin matches which look amazing!

I have followed her blog for a little while and wonder what segment of DNA we share that might make us think that this stuff is super fun! Would be cool if we could link it back to our common ancestor. 

She is my cousin!!!

I can’t not mention my friend and Mentor Louise Coakley. She has taught me all I know about the world of DNA and I would be lost without her. She was inspiring on this tour and I loved seeing so many people come and say hi as well as, thank her for all she has done to assist and teach others. 

Louise Blaine Mel
Louise, Blaine and Mel

Thanks to all the old and new friends I made – I will be sure to forget someone if I try to list you all, but I look forward to seeing you online or catching you in person at the next DNA Down Under. I am off to get painting some chromosomes! 

Conferences, DNA

Day One DNA to the Max – Sydney

What a fantastic start to DNA to the Max – I started the morning meeting some of the Unlock the Past staff and then was able to greet some of the attendees with my new found friend – he didnt talk much. It was so nice to see the excitement of people coming through the door.

Greeting Attendees

We are so lucky to have one of the world’s experts Down Under – Blaine Bettinger – His ability to make complicated DNA information super simple with case studies and steps detailing how you can use his information is an art!

I always learn so much from his presentations and couldn’t wait to get back to my airbnb and get exploring the new tips.

I attended sessions about What Aussies think about DNA testing, The potential use of Genetic DNA for Law Enforcement and How to be a super sleuth with limited information from matches. 

You couldn’t wipe the smile from my face when I heard that Australians are leading the way with using DNA technology for Medical information – Watch this space for more information!

The other sensational part of my day was catching up with old friends and putting faces to friends that I have known online. The networking and friendships that are made at these events are great. It makes me so happy that people are weird like me and love DNA and family trees as much as I do!

Excited for tomorrow but first im off to test out some of the things ive learnt.

DNA, Interviews with Experts

Interview with Louise Coakley – DNA Downunder Speaker

Louise Coakley and Melanie Dunstan

I had the wonderful opportunity to interview Louise Coakley – One of the speakers from the upcoming DNA Down Under Tour. 

Louise is a great teacher and spends hours of her time in helping others with their DNA Research or challenges.

She is an Administrator for many DNA related facebook groups and her website www.genie1.com.au is an awesome Australian based DNA Genetic Genealogical website. 

I hope that you enjoy getting to know Louise and she inspires you to come along to the DNA Down Under Tour. 

When did you become interested in Family History?

I started researching family history more than 20 years ago when my young daughters came home from primary school with homework to draw a small family tree back to their grandparents. That exercise raised a few interesting questions, so I continued exploring and learning and have never stopped!  I started DNA testing in 2011 after responding to an offer of a free Y-DNA test for my husband’s surname project on surname mailing list.  My husband was happy to oblige, so I dived into learning everything I could about genetic genealogy, tested myself at all the main companies, and tested many relatives who were interested… and as you know it is addictive, so I am still going, and still learning.  It is such a fast-changing and fast-growing field, that every day I wake up and wonder what will be new today!

What do you like most about genetic genealogy?

I love the investigative nature of genetic genealogy – exploring the DNA results, researching genealogical records, building speculative trees, finding clues and fitting the puzzle pieces together to help solve a research goal. It is amazing that a few mls of our saliva can help us reach back 200 years and connect with other descendants of our ancestors, and identify the unknown origins of our early settlers or convict ancestors, and give identity and provide comfort to people who’ve always wondered who they are and where they came from.  Being able to infer relationships between people and families by combining DNA with genealogical research is such a powerful tool.  

Can you provide one example of how DNA testing has expanded your family tree?

Yes, a simple example from my own family, but also a very common situation for Australians of Irish or British descent, is where you have an immigrant ancestor with a very common name, and you know little about their family that remained in the home country. One of my great great grandmothers was Elizabeth Kelly, born 1838 in Moynalvey, Meath, Ireland, to parents James Kelly & Margaret Martin.  Elizabeth Kelly married in 1859 in Meath, and immigrated with her husband and small children to Victoria in 1863.  They had many more children in Victoria over the next 20 years.  One of my relatives travelled to Ireland and researched the records, and could only find the names of three of Elizabeth’s siblings, but nothing more about them.  Then last year my father got a good DNA match (121cM) to a previously unknown 2ndcousin once removed who lives in Ireland.  He had a small tree, which I researched back one more generation and confirmed his ancestor John Kelly as a brother to my Elizabeth Kelly (same parents, same parish).  The Shared Matches revealed some more Kelly descendant matches on the same line, and some further ones to explore!

What satisfactions are there to be had with genetic genealogy?

As well as adding many new branches to my own family tree and enjoying connecting and collaborating with new-found cousins, I also get a lot of satisfaction from educating and helping others.  I’ve assisted many people find previously unknown biological families and have successful connections.  It is even better when you discover that the biological family knew about them and had been searching for that person for a very long time without success.  And it is always a relief in cases where the individuals had no idea each other existed, but do find confirming evidence afterwards – such as a family letter, a named photograph or other non-DNA evidence confirming the DNA result.  I enjoy guiding and mentoring people with their own searches, to let them get the satisfaction and learn along the way.  Many people learn and solve their own mysteries under guidance, and often go on to help others do the same afterwards.

What should beginners know about genetic genealogy before they test? 

Mostly that they might become addicted to genetic genealogy and find that there are not enough hours in the day to do everything they want to, and that they might regularly get absorbed in it all and stay up far too late at night!  If DNA testers have never learned to research their family history before, that is something that they will need to do, as genealogical research is necessary to make sense of your DNA results and build your family tree. One other warning is that no-one knows before testing what their DNA will reveal.  Most testers find their DNA match results support their previous genealogical research, but others may be surprised or shocked to find their matches don’t reflect their known family, or that they have additional family members they weren’t expecting.  It is always a relief when opening results for the first time and immediately seeing that they fit the tester’s known family.  Also be aware that some cases have very few or very distant matches and can linger for several years without much progress in the way of useable matches, and yet other cases can be solved within a couple of hours of the results being made available.

The DNA Dowunder roadshow is coming to Australia in August.  What are you most looking forward to about the tour?

I am looking forward to meeting everyone: I will get to meet Blaine Bettinger for the first time, and also catch up with other Australian and New Zealand speakers. Some attendees may have met me already in person, many may know me from my online presence, or know my website or be members of my Facebook group Using DNA for Genealogy – Australia & NZ. I may be lucky enough to meet some cousins too – so if you are related to me or if you see my name or any of my DNA kits in your results, please introduce yourself!  And of course I look forward to presenting and sharing my knowledge with attendees.  I will be in Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne and the 3-day mega event in Sydney, so if you will be there, please come and say hello!

 

Conferences, DNA

DNA Down Under Ambassador

DNA Down Under Ambassador

I am proud to be an Ambassador for the DNA Down Under Tour coming to Australia in August 2019. 

Conference Locations

The Conference has both one day events in Brisbane, Perth, Adelaide, Melbourne and Canberra; and a Three Day event in Sydney. 

Speakers

The speakers are the best in the DNA business. Blaine Bettinger (https://thegeneticgenealogist.com) coming from the US. Experts from Australia and New Zealand, including Louise Coakley (www.genie1.com.au) and Helen Smith (dragongenealogy.com). 

In February I heard Blaine speak at Rootstech in Salt Lake City. Blaine has a beautiful way of teaching Genetic DNA which makes it simple and practical to understand. He is up to date with the every changing DNA testing methods. The use of simple language, stories and examples to teach to others is inspiring. 

You may have read some of his books when starting out with working with DNA for Family History research. It is fantastic that we are able to hear him speak down under!

Conference Program

I have seen the event programs for each of the cities and we are in for a real treat. There is content for all no matter your level of understanding of the DNA world. There is no repeated content at the three day event. You have the opportunity to attend both a one day event and the three day event. 

A huge bonus for this conference is the price. The registration fee includes a light lunch, morning and afternoon tea. This allows you to connect with the speakers as well as other attendee’s. I think the cost is great too and the skills you will learn will be well worth the ticket cost.

Counting the sleeps

I am counting the sleeps and can’t wait to be involved and would love for you to join me. Tickets and further information is available from www.dnadownunder.com 

Hope to see you there. 

Adoption, DNA, Great stories

My First DNA adoption case

Search for Birth Father

I met “Unnamed Female” in November 2016. A fellow genealogist suggested her case might be a good for me. To get started with using DNA Matches to find missing birth parents. I thought that I didn’t have the skills to be able to assist, but I was willing to give it a go.

She knew her birth mother but was desperately seeking connection to her birth father

Initial information

When I first saw her DNA tes in Ancestry, it revealed 68 – 4th cousin matches or closer. Slowly over time this number grew. Together we would excitedly email each other, when new closer matches arrived. Each new match was matched to other matches. If we could we added the person to our online speculative tree. We worked out how the new match fit into the family.

Slow progress

Progress was slow on her case. There was weeks with no new DNA matches. Until we had a match appear that was in the 2nd Cousin range – Who was this mystery match? We had great excitement that there was no shared matches to her mothers side of the tree. For weeks we internet searched and stalked profiles on Facebook to piece together whom this match may be. We were able to start a speculative family tree for this match. Slowly working backwards to see if there were links to the maternal branches on the tree – but nothing. We sent emails and messages and spoke to living family members trying to piece the puzzle together. There were many twists and turns and paths leading to dead ends, but we persisted.

Trees and Trees so many trees….

We researched the maternal side of the new matches tree. We couldn’t get this information to gel with the trees of the other shared matches. So we moved onto the Paternal side. We built lots of lots of trees and finally found links back to similar towns in NSW. Was this what we were looking for???

Some matches clicked in and others didnt. We found some more matches that didnt know their past family either. This added to the mystery and drove us on! (Still working on one of these mysteries. It involves an adoption following a shipwreck off the Cairns Coast. But thats another story, and blog post

Where are we now?

Today, we are sitting at 292 4th cousins or closer according to Ancestry DNA. We are close to finding her birth father, but again we seem to be at a Brick Wall. Her birth father is possibly a deceased brother whom we know nothing about. His relatives seem to know nothing either. Its two steps forward and five steps back. Each week we hope for new DNA matches to add to the story. It still amazes me that we can use DNA Matches to find birth parents.

What to read her side of the story?

If you want to read her side of the story. Im proud to share her blog with you – The Rollercoaster Ride Called Adoption : From the eyes of an adoptee

I hope that I am able to update this blog post in the future with more news